THANKS TO EVERYONE who wished me a Happy Birthday. It's been a tough day. I am making a promise to myself to not talk more about losing Big Mac. To focus on that doesn't allow for me to focus on the positive as easily. I did clean up some of the mess around the house after making a quick run to the store for cleaning supplies. It does smell a little bit fresher in here - that's a good thing. Another good thing was doing my taxes today. WOO HOO!
I'm going to bed and will try to get some rest so that I can hit the gym in the morning. So by the time you read the list, I will have run 3 miles! :)
Comfort food = homemade guacamole. McCormick's guacamole mix and two avocados does the trick! That mix is really on point! Oh, and don't forget the hint of lime tortilla chips.
I love and appreciate everyone who has wished me a happy birthday and to offer condolences for the passing of my dog, Big Mac.
Talking with my brother and sister - I proposed the idea of having an annual family gathering. This would be just for out immediate family. We don't see one another often enough and I love the idea of doing something that is a little more routine.
Now, I haven't watched RuPaul's Drag Race in over a year but I am diggin' the season premiere tonight.
I enjoy surprising people with gifts. I'm glad Jason liked his birthday card and small gift. :0)
The challenge today (01.29.12) is to post five positive things after having lost something or someone. Last night I lost my dog of 4 years, Big Mac. I adopted Big Mac from the Animal Welfare League of Arlington. They offer a great service to the area. Big Mac was an amazingly loving dog. Affectionate, protective, obedient, funny, and one of the few dogs that you can see a smile on his face. He will be missed.
By starting the list in order of the day, I can make the best effort to find all the great things in the day.
I went to Cafe Rio today after a long hiatus - their salads are the bomb! The tomatillo salad dressing is amazing.
Chatting with some friends about the events of Saturday night allowed me to vent. I am grateful for that.
It's always nice to hang out with Myra - we went to Cracker Barrel and to the movies to see "The Gray". I love how we can plan something impromptu.
I am so grateful for the friends I've made in the area. The ones who were nearby came over while I was grieving the loss of Big Mac. I always knew this could happen but you never know how you will deal with it when it does. I love that the experiences of all of my friends helped me to cope with it and to pull it together to take him into the veterinarian to be cremated. Anton, Don, Alan, and Myra - y'all are awesome!
I have never had a pet die that I was the sole caretaker for. When I took him into the vet, they offered to make a paw print of him. At first I didn't want any memories of him but I'm glad I told them that I did want it done. While I haven't brought myself to even look at it, I am glad that I have it for the time I am ready.
Today I learned a valuable lesson. It doesn't take me much to make me smile/happy. I also understand that I can't make someone feel happy if they don't want to feel that way to begin with. Happiness begins from within. Besides, it's my birthday - and I found happiness in singing songs. I just wish I could remember what the last song was that I sang because it was a new song I added to my karaoke playlist.
Tonight I had a blast running into two friends from work who share my love for singing karaoke. I think we sung about 8 songs total. Luckily the guy running the karaoke machine is smitten with Jen. LOL
I love Annies Paramount Steakhouse. To me, the chicken chili is THE BEST THING on the menu. Second best are the onion rings. Also, I saw my friendly server, Corrina. She's so nice!
If you know me.. you know I'm always meeting people. Last night I met Rachel, Lisa, and some other girl - LOL they bought me a birthday drink while I was singing. That was super nice of them.
I went by campus tonight to check out the ice rink. It was on and poppin'! I loved the response the students had to the event. BRAVO!
Finding a new song to add to my karaoke repertoire! Fastball's, "The Way". Awesome song for my vocal range.
It's my birthday weekend and with that said - I most likely won't write any entry on the same day. HAHAHA!! Last night I went to happy hour and had a great time. It must have been league night because I saw a few people from the league there. I really enjoyed myself and what's even better - I was home at a decent time.
I talked about it and I have conquered! I woke up and went to the
gym at 6:15 this morning. I have to say that I currently feel pretty
good. Then again, it's only 8:45 AM. LOL I'm glad I did it though.
It's nice to know that I have the rest of the day to myself. I also
think that by working out I may be a little more conscious about what I
eat during the day. It's kind of like when you're in school and the
teacher says "You all start off with As and the challenge is maintaining
that grade". I'm starting off with an A for today and I just have to
maintain that grade. What a novel concept. I'm going to have to think
more on that.
Last weekend I went out and sang karaoke. The song I chose was "The Body Electric" from the film Fame.
After my workout I was driving in the car and the song popped into my
head. It's such an inspirational song. I really like hearing the string
instruments in it and I like the fact that the singers are much like
the singers I knew and was in high school - not the greatest but we
could hold a note. Right on, Fame!
Pretty glad that I drove home early last night. Driving back from DC late at night is for the birds!
I love that La Nina has been doing her thing. The weather has been fantastic!!
When it's your birthday weekend people like to buy you drinks. Tonight that happened a couple times. Viva La Free Beer!
Woo.... the week is almost over. You do know what that means, right??? Oh sure you do! You just have to know. It's my birthday weekend! I'm trying to plan some celebratory moments to ring in the next year of life. I hope I'm successful. Whatever it may be, I'm sure that it'll be fun.
To start getting my mind right for the weekend I checked out this video. Boots and Cats - Check it out for yourself!
LOLOLOL!!!! Okay, the series of knock-off videos for "Shit _______ Say" and here's the "Shit Black Guys Say". I have heard these being said by friends many times over. LOL RIDICULOUS - yet accurate. Always good for a laugh!
I loved having a good laugh in Rosanna's office with a student after work hours. That's one of those moments you can never recreate nor could have imagined.
I learned something new today. This time it was related to website design.
Today I received my first (and perhaps only) birthday present that was truly planned and not a "Oh by the way, since it's your birthday I'll... " type of gift. While I don't knock any gesture, the ones that are thoughtful make me feel special.
Where did the day go? Man, I tell you! The days when classes are in session just seem to fly by. It was a good thing and I do like that it was a very productive day - but sometimes you just wish you had more time in the day. I remember how it was as a kid. The hours in one day seemed to creep by like a snail participating in a race. It was never fast enough. I guess keeping busy and enjoying the busyness is the key.
As the president of the bowling league I'm on - tonight was the first night where I felt like I had it all under control and just knew what was up. I like that feeling.
More happy news at the bowling league! We added two new bowlers tonight. How cool is that? We are now completely filled with bowlers to finish out the season. That's an even BETTER feeling.
Now, I haven't worked out in nearly a week and I put on a pair of pants that used to fit a little more snug than I preferred. Wouldn't you know that the pants felt too big?? That's what I'm talkin' about!
I loved that I posted a new contest on Facebook for work and students are really responding to it!
Today everyone seemed exceptionally nice. I don't know what to make of it but I'm just going to reflect upon it. I love when people are smiling, happy, respectful, helpful and king.
Tonight was the State of the Union address. I'm actually watching it as I type. It's amazing to watch it - it still feels unique/different/amazing to see a black President of the United States. Might I add, it's also good to see that Joe Biden is still around. I was kind of wondering about that. LOL
Today was one of those days that brings revelation. The revelation I had today was that I need to work out in the morning NOT after work. I haven't felt like working out yesterday OR today. I need to buck up and get my ass in the gym in the morning. I will try this for the first time on Thursday or Friday. LOL Probably Friday - I cannot lie. :0)
All of my print materials that I had to redo came in today. WOO HOO! Thank goodness!
The weather outside was amazing today! Who would have imagined people at Starbucks sitting outside with just a light jacket on at the end of January? I grew up in Michigan and this is UNHEARD OF!
Obama rocked it out with that speech! Loved it!
I'm loving this new little magnets I'm making that use the old keys from a computer keyboard. Always good to upcycle.
I found an amazing site to use for web design. I can't wait to create my new online portfolio.
Oh wow - I feel like I'm slackin' in the blog department. I haven't really kept track of things that happen each day.. but let me dig real deep and think of 5 things I loved about today. And yes, I like some country music. Many years at Marshall University caused this. hahaha
We got a message about someone wanting us to work on their resume. Yes, Nicole and I are on our hustle and we do resume renovations. I'm glad people are loving our work. Just reminds me that I need to build that site!
Fried calamari. I LOVE IT!
The students are back on campus and it's great to see everyone back and excited. That means that the semester will fly by.
Ooh - I love that I got compliments on my new $11.99 Bubble Coat!
I am finally getting the hang of putting together websites! One of the things I created today was an awesome looking web banner! I made this banner in less than 30 minutes. LOVE IT!
What a lovely Sunday it was. That is all. HAHAHA just kidding. You know that's not all to my day. There is always something happening. It's not THAT exciting but when you don't leave the house, what do you expect?
While I didn't leave the house I got some rest. Saturday night really wore me out. I'm not that 22 year old anymore! LOL
I talked to a few friends (new and old) on the phone today and that was a nice surprise.
I made a delicious meal - spaghetti and meatballs. Guess what I'll be eating for the next couple of days... hahaha
There's a customer I have who is the nicest! I wish all customers were as kind as she is. I really appreciate that. She's a repeat customer so clearly I'm doing something right!
I heard a Madonna song today - "Dress You Up" was playing. I love this song! "You've got style. That's what all the girls say... " Made me smile inside. :0)
WHOA!! I almost missed a day cause I was out WAY too late.. but here I am... completing my list for Saturday. Today I interacted with a TON of people. Folks whom I am familiar with and folks who are brand new.
This evening I saw the movie "Pariah". A very well done film about a high school girl dealing with her own sexuality. Powerful messages.
One of the things I love to do is meet people. Tonight I met a lot and even though I was drinking I still managed to remember their names: Bartender Mike, Don, Jonathan, and Laurel and Josh - they were on their second date and met on E Harmony. I had to ask Laurel why she felt the need to bring her date to a gay bar and she replied, because she loves it there. I replied, well at least you can see that he's pretty much willing to do what it takes to win you over - including singing karaoke songs that you pick out for him! She in particular was a lot of fun. hahaha
At the gym I was able to increase my weights on the pull down to 100 pounds. I think all the protein I'm eating in the yogurt is increasing my strength exponentially.
I loved how I was able to park my car in the Ballston Commons Mall's parking deck for practically all night and still only pay $1. Great deal!
I got some sort of strange satisfaction of being at that bowling meeting today and saw some folks that don't speak to me anymore. I talked about our league and what we're doing to the board and kept it moving. Kept it classy cause that's how I roll.
Thank God, it's Friday! It's been one helluva week and I survived. The last two days were filled with cleaning up a mistake I made. The mistake is all cleaned up and back in order now. Whew! I'm lucky to have a job that is supportive of its workers in more ways than one.
I'm glad I was able to maintain my cool during the last couple of days as I worked to correct the mistakes with the help of others. I love that our office team are truly team players!
My friend Aric text me today to ask what I would be doing for St. Patrick's Day. I replied that I had no clue because you know.. that's just one of those holidays no one really plans for. HAHAHA. At any rate, he mentioned that he and his wife might be planning a road trip to the area. I love when I get to see my friends - I did see Aric some time this past summer but I haven't seen Holly in well over a year. It might be a good opportunity to get the college gang back together. The last time we were all together for St. Patrick's Day was when I lived in Savannah, Georgia. Now THAT was a good time! Savannah knows how to throw a St. Patrick's Day party.
I enjoyed going to the "Going Away Party" for a grad student of ours. After a week of staff development, our staff feels a lot more closer and that made the party feel that much better.
I FINALLY sold a photograph on the site today. That was exciting. I think I need to post more photos. I've taken some good ones recently. What I loved about the sale is that the customer asked about it and when I listed the item and sent her a message that it was posted, she immediately bought it. Now that's a great customer!
Tonight I ran into Target to pick up a few things. You do know that anytime you say something like that it really means you're going to pick up more than just a few. This one item I couldn't help but purchase - a new sporty winter coat for $11! I loooooooooove a good deal!
Such a LONG EFFIN DAY! So many lessons learned. All work related. Growth. That's all I can say.
I love the support and care I received from the goof up that I made with a couple of publications at work. It was MUCH appreciated.
The saga of the "Shit ______________ Say" videos. Today's video showcases DC area people. Check it out.
We made crafts today during our day long retreat. I was in charge of this project and everyone seemed to love it. Whew! I am so glad - I made up the project while at Wal-Mart late last night. Yup, I still got it. The art educator skills...
While at the retreat we played a game of "Win, Lose, or Draw". It's a classic 80s game show where you have to draw out the clues without talking, writing words or numbers. I LOVED this show. Anyway - once the clues slipped into sentences that contained slang words, things slipped into SUPER HILARITY mode! Sample sentence: His Bar Mitzvah was Crunk!
A song popped up on a CD I was listening to in my car this morning. It took me back to my childhood. It also made me think about how, from my perception, kids just don't get thrown nearly as many educational things during the course of their day. I remember watching Schoolhouse Rock on Saturday mornings and loved them - learning lessons through song.
What a busy day! But I ain't complainin'. It beats the alternative ANY day - see, that's that positivity! :0) The thought for the day revolved around influences. I think I seemed to be the only one on staff whose parents have no influence on the decisions they make as an adult. Part of me thought, "We are grown ass people! Do we still seek the approval of our parents?" Then I realized, well yes we do - well some do. I am just not one of them. LOLOL My current influences are Oprah (she's been a long time influence), Maya Angelou, Suze Orman, some of my peers and colleagues I've met along the way, and people I meet and have conversations with day to day. Who are your influences?
Anyhoo - Just a thought I had.
I enjoyed staff time TWO days in a row! How about that? Normally I can't take so much "togetherness" and this week has been pleasant. I think it's because we have been doing more sharing and learning about one another as opposed to doing mind-numbing work.
Okay... So I can't tell you how much AWKWARD Black Girl makes my day. I can't wait to see more episodes. Episode 11 is pretty good with the flashbacks! If I were rich, I'd fund this project just so I can see more.
Last night's bowling meeting went pretty well. I am SO SO SO glad that it is finally on the verge of being back to normal.
The night of bowling had two more things I loved about it - 1. I bowled a 181! 2. A new guy came by the bowling league to ask about joining. The new guy had heard about the league and found our information online. That's a good thing!
I had a good conversation with my graduate student and helped her think through some things. I love having good, reflective conversations. The conversation benefits all those involved.
Today was pretty good. We had staff training today - although it was more like staff reflection and it was nice. Part of the discussion brought up the FISH Philosophy. One of the points of this philosophy is to choose your attitude. It made me think of my newly cemented way of living - choosing to focus on the positive things that happen every day. I will say that due to this, I maintain a pretty good and healthy disposition. It's healthy to look at the things that make you smile, laugh, and just feel good.
Here are a few feel good moments of the day.
I don't know WHY it took me so long to start watching The Misadventures of an Awkward Black Girl. This mess is FUNNY! It has a big following and it's just plain ol' funny - Lots of profanity though but it's like she's using our own inner voices outwardly. LOL It definitely makes me laugh out loud!
OMG! I just made the MOST delicious Chai Tea EVER! LOVE IT!!! (11:18PM mind you - I just wanted something sweet before bed - sweetened with honey).
A girl at work brought in these sugar cookies for the pot luck. These weren't just your everyday sugar cookies, these were cookies with the likeness of a snowman! These just made my day. I was fascinated with how they were made (although they were store bought and a machine created them).
I love the new knit scarves that came in for the upcoming events on campus... they look supa dupa, fly! There's just one problem with them but in the large scheme of things, it's rather insignificant.
Someone told me I made their day today. It was via email and I honestly could sense her joy through the typed words. One of my favorite things to do is to make someone's day.
It's the last day of the 3 day weekend. Am I ready to go back? Hell no! But you got to do these things, ya know? Before I get back to the grind, I have these awesomely fun/great things that happened!
There aren't many commercials that really make me laugh out loud. One of the new Bounce Fabric Softener commercials did that this morning. HILARIOUS! Rawr! Check it out!
Gym time! I did 90 pounds on the pull down bar! That's pretty good considering a month ago I was only doing 55 pounds. WOOT WOOT!
I got an awesome message from a customer of mine regarding the bracelet she purchased. Read her message:
Today at work. A customer of mine admired my bracelet and asked where I
got it. I gave her your name and your website to check it out :) also,
soon I will be asking you for two orders of size 8 bracelets of the same
kind. I'll keep in touch with you about that. Are you able to make
more??
A meal with friends is always good. Great discussions.
With my Google+ Account, I offered a free gift to the first 5 people to add my shop. Within a matter of 45 minutes, I had 5 people! I love how quickly it all happened and I'm happy to send out the gifts.
I woke up with one thing on my mind - MUST. COMPLETE. WEBSITE. I've spent most of the day doing that. I really didn't have much energy to do anything beyond that either but I did find lots of things to love about the day - regardless of the fact that I never left the house.
I was Mr. Social Media today. I did finish adding in the text and arranging the layout of the bowling website. I set up a Facebook group, a Twitter account AND a Google+ account. If you can't find our league, then you must not be looking. LOL I loved that the practice from doing this site prepared me to do my personal site.
Google is our friend. I love search engines and Google is my search engine of choice. While working on my personal website, I was looking for a FREE Word Press template. I found several to choose from. The other problem was how to install it - and luckily I figured that out! :0)
Crab Cakes was what I had for lunch. They were delicious. What made them even better was that I made my own sauce to eat right it. Mayo, sweet Thai chili sauce, and cayenne pepper. Loved it!
I made my contribution to the Obama campaign and ordered a few things. I needed to update my car magnet for sure! I loved the items they had. Wish I could have afforded more - like a t-shirt. Oh well - there's still time for that.
I was thoroughly entertained by The Golden Globes tonight. The movie, "The Artist" garnered a lot of awards - makes me think that I need to see it. I also need to see The Iron Lady. I wonder if I can make that happen soon. Hmmm. I love awards shows for this reason! It heightens your awareness of things you should experience. This is how I learn about the non-blockbuster movies, or a musician, or musical, play, etc.
Ooh It's so cold outside! I guess it could always be more cold though so I supposed I should really be happy that it's not. Isn't that a great way to think about things? Just be grateful for what you have. Today I felt like I got maximum satisfaction out of the day with minimum amount of effort. As Martha Stewart would say, "It's a good thing".
"Though you may not drive a great big Cadillac. Gangsta white walls. TV antennas in the back. You may not have a car at all. But remember brothers and sisters. You can still stand tall. Just be thankful for what you got." I LOVE THIS SONG! Check it out here!
Today I went to Myra to see the movie, War Horse. Let me just say that this was an amazingly moving movie. I really enjoyed it and yes - I cried a little. It was very touching. I highly recommend it.
TJ Maxx is the place where you can be a Maxxinista. I was that for sure tonight. With Myra's help in picking it out, I bought a nice new shirt. I can't wait to wear it. I love the color - a nice thin lime green stripe on a white shirt.
The best part of waking up is Starbucks in my cup while being in an empty house and reconnecting with my friend in Greece whom I haven't spoken to in months. It was great to spend time with him and catch up. We even used Face Time on our iPhones to chat. Very nice!
I loved spending time with Myra today. We had a good time at the movies and having dinner. I love how we just talk about pretty much anything - including a discussion on religion. That was interesting considering she's a pastor and I am a non-religious person.
Love knows no bounds and will always prevail. You can hold back for as long as you want and it just has a way of working itself into your heart. On my way to work this morning I was thinking about relationships. It's funny how some people will go for the physically attractive person and not the person whom they are compatible with. This reminded me of some of the younger folks I know (and a couple older). And there are always those times when we compare our own attractiveness to that of others and think, "They have someone and I don't?" but we don't think about all of the qualities that made that person beautiful to them. This reminds me of the movie Shallow Hal. If you haven't seen it, it's worth watching. Hahahaha See, my mind just tends to ramble and the rambles turn into words on a computer.
At any rate, a friend posted something on Facebook that made me think about the topic I opened this entry with. It was a link to gay couples from the past - before any sort of gay rights movement started. These folks were fearless in their adoration for their partners. How amazingly brazen they were to have done something like that then. It just goes to show you that love is ever powerful.
I loved the sense of "getting shit done" at work today. Very productive day and still, it felt very relaxed. Good combination!
As I was leaving work, a friend of mine who works in another office, complimented me on my coat and said it was very flattering on me. That made me feel really good. :0)
I went to see comedian, Sheryl Underwood last night. She was sooooo funny. Her comedy is more like a good friend who can tell stories with a lot of energy and humor. She doesn't seem to really work to get a punch line in like other comedians. I really enjoyed it. It was also cool hanging out with Dian - Nicole, yes - I steal your friends. LOLOL
I went out after the comedy show and met quite a few new people. Made me feel popular. LOL One was the doorman who also happens to be a personal trainer. I also ran into someone I met last year. Very cool to see him.
I woke up this morning feeling good.... the alarm clock played The Dave Matthews Band's song, "Ants Marching" which is one of my all-time favorite songs. I got ready for my day by showering, getting dressed, feeding the dog, and getting my Greek yogurt and coffee made. Then I plopped on the couch to peruse Facebook. I came across videos that a friend posted that were very provocative in their content. I then thought, THIS will be the things I love today. A day dedicated to videos that made me think and feel - and those are two things I LOVE to do. I've featured a video here and there but not like this - until today. Enjoy and open your minds to your own thoughts.
This is something I've always wondered...
I'm far from being a religious person but I love what this guy had to say.
This commercial just makes me feel really good. I smile every time I watch it.
I love that this teacher has created something magical. If only we all could have a teacher like this.
This woman is AMAZING. I love her. This is one of my favorite covers by her. I love how she edited it.
What a great night of bowling. I actually had a good time AND bowled well. That's such a good thing. Work wasn't too shabby either but bowling was much more fun. The rain today isn't even bad. Why complain about it when others would be just as happy to have it? The Rolling Stones has a lyric that says, "You can't always get what you want - but you get what you need". That's a good statement to live by and a good reason to be thankful for what you have. Just a thought I had today.
I bowled 50 pins over average. That's so awesome! Yay for a 191!
I talked to a vendor today and clearly she and I have built some sort of friendship. I think that's pretty cool. For whatever reason, we began talking about my Etsy site and the next thing you know she was perusing my site and asking questions about selling some of her art on that site. Amazing how these connections just happen.
Hahaha the Shit People Say clips keep coming. This one is. "Shit Nobody Says". Good stuff!
I came home to two packages. One box contained my new boots and the other contained my new Facebook Cards I got from Moo.comhttp://us.moo.com/. The best thing about the Facebook Cards is that they were COMPLETELY free because of a sale the company was doing.
Someone commented on how trim I looked tonight and I really appreciated that. It's good to know that my exercising is making a difference. :0)
This day was very tiring. Whew! I didn't do too much and I'll leave it at that. Just very tired. It's a slow news day in this household because I didn't go to work but let's see how I can develop a list of 5 out of all of this.
I did go to the gym today but I didn't do a full 30 minutes on the treadmill but I'm glad I did make it to the gym.
A friend of mine sent me a text to say that Target has Chobani Greek Yogurt on sale for $1 each. This makes two people this week to inform me of the sale. I love how people actually pay attention to my Facebook news feed. hahahaha I sure ran over to Target and bought 10 containers of yogurt!
This commercial has been around for a while but I love it. It cracks me up every time!
Another thing I loved that I saw on TV was The Jeffersons. I loved the Jeffersons when I was growing up. While I was lying in bed this morning with a belly ache, George and Weezie made me smile. By the way - I always said my parents looked like the Jeffersons. LOL
Something I noticed today - pretty much everyone I've interacted with has been in a REALLY good, friendly mood. The girl at the checkout at Target who was just nice as could be, the ladies I let walk in front of my car to enter the store that sent a thank you wave, my roommate giving me three pocket hand sanitizers just to be nice, the folks at the gym who wished me a good day, and the folks I talked to on the phone, text message, or instant messenger. Just niceness all around!
It's always the simplest things that mean so much. Someone saying thank you and showing that they are truly appreciative makes you feel good. Not because they were grateful for what you did but because what you did made their day. That is truly a great feeling - to know you made a difference in someone's life.
My Greek Yogurt exploration continues with the discovery of Chobani Pineapple flavored. LOVE IT! I wanted to get another container to eat. I can tell that this will be a treacherous (yet healthier alternative) path. LOL
Yesterday I bought some frozen chicken wonton soup from Trader Joe's. That's some tasty soup. Low in calories, 11 grams of protein, low in fat... the only drawback is that it's high in sodium. You have to take the good and take the bad... you take them both and there you have... bwahahahahaha
The Burning Man - this is something I've always been interested in doing. But why on earth does it always have to be during welcome week of the university? I think it would be something completely cool and memorable to do. One of these years I am going TRY to experience it. I'm sure I could get a few adventurous/bohemian friends to do it. Who's game? My only concern is the drug use that I'm sure takes place. hahaha Now I have the song of the same name by Third Eye Blind in my head.
I love making the day of people and surprising them. I mailed my dad his iPod back along with a couple of things - a t-shirt and a coffee mug. He called to show his appreciation for the gifts and for the music choices that I placed on his iPod. That was really nice.
Today during lunch we all sat around the table in the office and had lunch. It's something we don't always do when classes are in session. It is nice to really get to know each other in a relaxed environment and not have to worry about time constraints as much.
I love this video based on Dr. Seuss's "Oh, the Places You'll Go"
What a great day! It was busy but I enjoyed every bit of it. I always feel so "smart" and "sophisticated" when I do things like this. I've been to many museums but this time it felt different in a good way. I also leave museums with a strong urge to create works of art. I have canvases sitting around the house and they desperately need to be shown some attention. I also have a drawing I started nearly 10 years ago - I think I may have just found some motivation to finish it.
I have to say it again - it was a really nice day. The company I kept. The weather. The food. And now I can add the five specific things I loved about today.
I went to the Phillips Collection in DC. Great museum that was exhibiting works by Degas. I remember Degas's work from being an art major in college. He was one of my favorites - probably the favorites of many people simply because he's just one of the more well known impressionist artists. LOL It's like, you can't mention impressionism without Degas, Van Gogh, Cezanne, Monet, Renoir... They were all on display there. I really enjoyed it. I'm thankful for VG for suggesting we visit.
While at the Phillips Collection I saw the work of Arthur Dove. I had never heard of this man before and I can't say that I loved everything he did from the instant I saw it - but what I did love is his signature. He seems like a very bold man because of the placement of his signature. He signed his name "Dove" smack dab in the center of his painting. He didn't seem to care what was there... he just knew he was going to sign in the center no matter what. LOL When everyone else chose to sign on the bottom left or bottom right corner, he bucked convention. Way to go Dove!
On my way home from DC I decided to give one of my friends a call. I haven't seen Hank in a couple months so I thought that since I was passing Arlington, we could go to Chevy's for happy hour. Cheap eats and drinks ($3 for each item!). It was nice catching up with him.
Now, I'm not one for PDA (most of the time).. but I certainly didn't mind it today at Starbucks. I love how I didn't even think twice about it.
I tried two new food places today. Cafe Dupont and Le Pain Quotidien. Both were good places. I love how Le Pain Quotidien had a dark chocolate spread on the table - so of course I had to order something to spread that chocolate on. hahahaha I ordered a croissant.
Oh, what a beautiful morning. Oh, what a beautiful day. It was 68 degrees today! What in the heck??? Such a nice day. It wasn't sunny all day but it was very warm by winter standards so I seized the day. I took down the Christmas decorations, walked the dog, and opened the windows. I can't believe that I am excited to watch the Republican Presidential Debate. hahaha I guess I am just interested in finding out what these crazy folks have to say. I have now watched it and in order to keep things positive, I will refrain from any comments. :0)
My awesome meal I made today. Asparagus, mushrooms and onion.
Since it was an awesome day outside, Big Mac and I went for a walk. 2 miles later and he has been out for the count for most of the day. He looked like he wasn't going to make it during the last 1/2 mile. hahaha I kept having visions of having to carry him the rest of the way home. Luckily he made it. I guess he didn't really understand what we were going to do. It was a great walk though!
I tasted another flavor of Trader Joe's Greek Yogurt - Honey. I have to say that this was a great flavor! LOVED IT! I wonder what it would taste like if I got plain Greek yogurt and put my own honey in it? Undoubtedly, I'd put more honey into it than necessary. :0)
Today, while I was making a bracelet order, I came up with a new look for the bracelet. I was like, "Wow, why haven't I thought of this before?" Once I finished a couple of the bracelets, I took photos and added a new photo to the listing and asked myself, "Why didn't I think of THIS two years ago?" hahahaha Check out the new style here because I love it!
Whoa... I barely at any meat today! That's becoming more of a normal thing. Am I becoming a vegetarian?? hahaha I love that I am enjoying vegetables so much! You still won't sell me on tofu though - you hear me, VG?
Today's weather was amazing. 60 degree weather at the start of January? That's unheard of, unless you live in Southern California, Las Vegas, South Florida, you get the idea. There were a few things that I loved about today and they all took the simplest form - one with probiotics! :0)
Today I tried Greek yogurt for the first time. Barbara, our budget analyst, brought in Greek yogurt for everyone today. I've been doing my best to try new things lately so I gave it a shot. This yogurt is pretty thick! YET TASTY! It was peach flavored. MMMMM, MMMM good! I love how it has 14 grams of protein in it and 0% fat at only 140 calories. You can't beat that with a stick! I went to Trader Joe's to pick up their brand of the yogurt and can't wait to have some tomorrow.
My love for anything from the golden age of television makes my day. Catch this clip - It's truly a classic moment on TV.
A friend from high school bought a bracelet from my shop and received it today. She was so happy with it that she took a picture of herself wearing it. That was pretty awesome - considering it was unsolicited.
Since my housemate is away for the weekend I get to have my house to myself. I am loving having the fortress of solitude back!
I LOVE the Erykah Badu CD - Baduism - takes me back to the year I graduated
college. I listened to it after I listened to India.Arie (see yesterday's blog entry). I remember the first time I ever saw her she performed on BET's Video Soul. I bought her CD soon after and I have been a fan ever since. Baduism is in My Top 25
Favorite Albums of all time.
This morning I had a thought. Why do people waste energy retaliating, being mean, etc? Because someone has done you wrong doesn't mean you have to crush them - or am I just Mr. Nice Guy? I live by the concept of turning the other cheek. If that doesn't always do the trick, then I turn my back on the offenders and walk away. I hate expending energy on things that are fundamentally not important. An eye for an eye is not my M.O. I'm not a religious person. I don't know Bible verses as well as I know 80s Top 40 music. What I do know is that the law of the universe is, "For every action there is an equal and opposite reaction". I know that living by the idea of "Treat people the way you would like to be treated". I don't think it gets much simpler than that.
I also had other thoughts such as - I need to just chill and not care so much. Why? Simply stated, everything happens for a reason. With or without my direct influence or expectations. So living in those serendipitous moments is what makes life exciting.
Now, although I've said all of that, it doesn't make it any easier to live like that. hahaha
Today I FINALLY received my Oprah's Lifeclass journal. It's a nice little journal. I thought it might have questions to answer in it but it didn't. Oh well, I'm glad I finally received it!
I'm glad that I got quite a bit done today at work. The big event is just around the corner and I hope to have everything settled by the end of next week.
Receiving not one but two compliments on how I chose to wear my jeans today made me smile. All I did was cuff them up about 3 inches because I bought them too long. Who knew I was being a fashionista?
Being able to process specific situations in my life today felt good. To allow myself a little peace of mind made me feel better. We all have a choice. Reminds me of one of my favorite songs by India.Arie. Okay, so maybe my Chi is still a little out of whack hahaha Certainly not blue - maybe aquamarine? Teal?
It's a relatively quite night tonight, which is quite nice. As I was browsing through India.Arie videos on YouTube, I remembered that I loved her cover of Don Henley's, "The Heart of the Matter" and the theme of the song is all about forgiveness - which is kind of what I was referring to at the start of the blog. This guy does a great cover of the song - Gavin Beach. I love listening to new talent, on YouTube no less!! Here's another great cover of Tracy Chapman's "Fast Car" by him. And I LOVE Tracy Chapman!
I think tomorrow will be an India.Arie day.
Her Love and Relationships, Vol. 1 album is one of my favorites because it is well-written and has a great theme that is created by the tracklisting. There's not one song on the album that I don't like and it's very uplifting, positive, and reflective.
I've noticed something about my blogs. They are becoming more and more narrative in nature. I guess that's a good thing. I always have a story to tell. Our lives are full of short stories that make up a huge book based on ourselves. Lots of reoccurring themes. I think providing a narrative helps you, the reader, really feel what I've experienced and maybe reflect on a similar experience you may have had.
I love a good laugh and certainly had one by watching, "Shit White Girls Say to Black Girls". I do understand that it's only a matter of time before there's one called, "Shit Black Men Say to White Girls" or any other variation. It's all in fun though (and based in some truths). It most definitely cracks me up.
Ooh, this Load Potato Soup by Progesso = tasty, great, delicious, scrumdiliumptious! I have a new soup to love!
My friend, Dian got us tickets to see comedian Sheryl Underwood at the DC Impov. I'm excited to see her. She is TOO FUNNY. I love her!
Speaking of Sheryl Underwood, I have never been mentioned so many times by a celebrity on Twitter. @sherylunderwood was blowing up my Twitter account and I loved every minute of it!
I do love that Michelle Bachmann has suspended her bid for President of the United States. One of the smartest choices she's made. Michelle Bachmann, this one is for you: Mommy Doesn't Need Fixing.
I eased back into work with no complications. It was cery quiet in the office but I'm sure that will change tomorrow. More people will be back and then it will all start to begin again.
Tonight I had a conversation with VG on religion and beliefs. Very nice conversation. Nice to hear his views and I'm glad I enlightened him on black Latter-Day Saints and one of their most famous members, Gladys Knight. The sound of silence indicated shock and I found that pretty funny. By the way, I am not Mormon - just inquisitive. I can't even say I'm a religious person. That's a whole other discussion for another blog. hahaha At any rate, I'm hear to talk about the five things I loved about today and here it goes!
I read this line today from a blog that I loved and thought was perfect, "Implement the No Complaining Rule. Remember that complaining is like vomiting. Afterwards you feel better but everyone around you feels sick." How true is that??? I have said for the last few years that I can't stand when people choose to complain about things. It could be a complaint about the simplest thing like it's raining. Um, it's raining because that's what the planet does - it's own thing and you're not the boss of it! While we might not like it - it's not worth complaining about because we can't personally change it. Even if we could change things that we complain about, why complain? Just change it and move on. You can read the rest of the tips here.
While I was in the grocery store I saw a shorter, older woman who was eying an item on the top shelf. Since I was right there I offered her some help if she needed it. She said yes and told me what she wanted and I got the two cans down for her. The look on her face, full of gratitude made me feel really good that I was able to help her (and that my parents raised me with manners and kindness). Now THIS does remind me of the Mormon friends and acquaintances I have. They are some of the most wholesome, nicest people! This gesture of mine was very Mormon-esque hahahaha
There was a discussion about The Abominable from the famous holiday stop-action children's program, "Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer". I always thought he was ONLY referred to as The Abominable and the other person referred to him as The Bumble. I was like, "The Bumble? He's not called that." She and I were going to figure this out so I headed over to YouTube to find a clip. We found the clip but ONLY after having seen this one The Abominable. I cracked up laughing. I loved that!
I made a delicious, quick and easy turkey chili tonight. I was skeptical about the recipe but it really turned out well. I love ANY meal that takes me about 30 minutes to make.
Oooh - Target had a 70% Off Christmas items and I got a travel humidifier and a comfort massage cushion for $5.99 each. I LOVE A BARGAIN!
If you read yesterday's post about feeling blue - then I'm happy to report that I am feeling better. My Chi must have been off. The Chi is still working itself out but I'm definitely not in that space in my head that I was yesterday.What a difference a day makes.
This new game show on NBC, called "Who's Still Standing" has me cracking up. I like the way they drop the loser in the well.
I went to the gym today and ran 3.66 miles and did a lot of reflection and that's a good thing. It was a double whammy of goodness to love. It got me to really relax about some things and stop trippin'. I tend to get to a point of over thinking. I have to remember to let go and let flow. Woosah!
I love that TV One has grown into their own as a network for black television. I love the show "Unsung" and am thrilled that they have a new program starting called, "Find Our Missing". Find Our Missing, a new, hour long docu-drama series for TV One, will
put names and faces to people of color – young and old- who have
disappeared without a trace.
Strolling down memory lane again with two friends from high school - one in particular, I've known since kindergarten. Facebook is the great connector!
I made my first terrarium with the moss that I ordered. I'm excited to take it to work and place it in my tidied up office tomorrow. The moss really adds something to the look of it.
Today's entry presents one of those times when it's difficult to make my list of positive things that happened today. There are two distinct causes for this - 1. I never really got out of bed today aside for grabbing food to eat and to use the bathroom. 2. Things just seem a little off for me. The latter seems that way due to a disturbance in "the force". hahaha Actually a disruption in the typical routines I've been having. Am I sliding into a funk? If so, how will this funk affect me and my postings?
I can't tell you exactly what feels off - I just sense it. I can feel something brewing. Maybe a fully rested me will wake up on the second day of January and this feeling doesn't exist anymore. And if it does, I will coexist with it until it passes.
At any rate - I'm going to make my best attempt at a list tonight then crawl into bed (again) and wait to drift off to sleep.
Laying in bed all day felt pretty good. I loved the warmth of the sheets and the comforter covering me. It felt comforting and well, I guess that's why those special blankets are called comforters? hahaha
I love that I have leftovers in the refrigerator because I didn't really have to do much thinking with regards to what I would eat. Just heat and serve. It was one of those days I ate everything while sitting in bed. You'd think I was hungover or sick and I was neither.
This is totally random but I was looking at my feet today and thought, "I have some nice looking feet!" Now, this thought really did make me feel good for a couple of minutes in an otherwise "feeling blue" type of day.
Since it was a "blue" kind of day I watched an old black and white movie by Abbott and Costello. After watching it I wanted to watch anything with Bette Davis in it. I love her presence on film. Too bad I couldn't find a film on cable with her in it and I don't own anything by her - maybe it's time that I do.
There are so many little things that are floating through my mind to place into this last slot - they all seem so insignificant but I honestly know that nothing in the world is insignificant. There's a sense of connectedness among everything in the world. The fact that I breathe has an effect somewhere on the planet. It's days like this (and some days that are less blue and more magenta) that cause me to get all philosophical. I love being philosophical and thinking of things like how my breathing adds to the breeze someone may feel in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Just like my low energy/mood may affect someone else and bring them down. I am responsible for the energy I bring into the world each day. I watched a documentary by Tom Shadyac called "I Am" that talked about this. It was very intriguing.
Wow - this was a "deep" blog entry. WHEW!
My apologies for the low energy today.
Okay - as Scarlett O'Hara said so famously, "Afterall, tomorrow is another day."
Well, it's official. 2012 has arrived. It wasn't with much fanfare this year - just with some good friends at home. Sometimes that's all that's needed. A few drinks - Myra made a special drink that was tasty but I shutter to think of how many calories are in it considering it is made with coconut milk :0/ Overall it was a fun night - no kiss at midnight but some great laughs. The 5 of us who gathered for the occasion were definitely 5 things to love about today as well as these other 5.
Myra made some delicious Caribbean Jerk Chicken Wings. Mmmm.. I
loved them. The secret was a dash of cinnamon and nutmeg. How about
that???
This morning I didn't feel like going to the gym, let alone run for
30 minutes. I had told myself that since I was tired I would only do the
elliptical. Then while driving to the gym I told myself I would run for
10 minutes and then do the elliptical. Well, Once I was on the
treadmill I just kept going and did the full 30 minutes! I love how I
exceeded my expectation - I even increased my speed!
I turned on the Wii video game system for the first time in a long
time. It was awesome to play the Karaoke Revolution game again.
A good laugh was had by Herb and I when we realized that when he was
making his brie cheese croissant appetizer he left the paper on the
cheese! When we took it out of the oven it looked so good! When we cut
into it it still looked good. When we took a bite - we knew something
just wasn't right. We laughed so hard!
I love that I have been able to consistently post an entry on this
blog for what is now the 111th time. Here's to 365 posting of positive
things that make life worth loving.
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